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never ever change the immutable vertex numbers: otherwise we cannot use
our algorithms from outside with prescribed boundary meshes

-> use MVertex::_index instead

(renamed setNum to forceNum to make sure we don't use setNum by mistake)

- moved GUI to FlGui + added experimental QGui to test Qt

- fixed most MSVC and gcc compiler warnings

- converted some remaining tabs to whitespace (that's why the patch is
  so large; please try to remember to indent with 2 spaces and not
  tabs when you commit stuff to CVS)

- merged modified patch from Konstantinos Poulios to allow saving
  physical/partition as element tags in mesh formats that don't
  support them natively

Emilie: added functions to remesh a volume

added createtopologyFromMSH to create Topology from list of triangles

instead of implementation details (tetgen+delaunay & co)

HAVE_XXX defines.

This fixes three longstanding problems:

- the API was hard to use because some headers had HAVE_XXX ifdefs, so
  that cient codes had to know how the lib was compiled to compile
  themselves

- we had to do make clean after each ./configure, which erased too
  much (e.g. most of contrib)

- make depend could include unwanted stuff since it redefined FLAGS

- fix bb computation to avoid model jumping around when adding points in z=0 plane
- pass interpol matrices as ref

- fixed missing getShapeFunction/getGradShapeFunction + return all sf
  at once so we can implement MElement in term of these consistently
  (w or w/o FunctionSpace)

- can now merge multiple meshes and remove duplicate mesh vertices
  (useful e.g. when merging several STLs)

- added easy interface to create model-based postpro datasets on the
  fly + use this for mesh quality stats

shoot yourself in the foot with this: use with caution!)